
Two weeks today I moved to New York City. So basically it's safe to say that my life has been nicely flipped upside down these past few weeks...and to be honest the move itself has not been the half of it. It's because of all these changes I've been asking myself lately, "What am I?" (I mean, every beauty pageant queen and business development professional alike knows that your 10 second elevator pitch is critical because you never get to make a second 'first impression'. :)
I have always liked to view myself as an eternal optimist but there are always thing that happens which provides a strong dose of realism. I've never really been a pessimist per say, but sometimes those hard moments have made the question sincerity, intentions and motives. But I honestly feel like I have learned more in these past four weeks about myself than I have in quite some time. And because of that I think it's pretty clear that I am above all else an opportunist. Here's why...
The older I get, the easier bigger decisions are for me to make.
Moving to New York was an easy decision for me. That is intended to be no disrespect to my Atlanta office, my friends and colleagues in Atlanta or the city for that matter. (Which I don't think anyone will considering no one was surprised...to my surprise....that I was going :) I love Atlanta and I always will. It just was not rich with the kind of opportunities that were right for me. And rather than continuing to operate under those limitations I decided to take charge and do something about it.
When you least expect it good things will come to you...
you just have to be ready to work hard to hold onto them.
I am lucky enough to be working on a project that to be perfectly candid, could have waited a lifetime for someplace else. I also have realized as soon as you say I am going to focus on 'x' something else comes out of nowhere that you simply can not ignore. And that to me is the true test of someones abilities, priorities and strengths. It's how you handle when things don't go as planned that is a true test of someones character.
So with all that being said, I would encourage a little self reflection from time to time as you transition and change whether it be from semester to semester, school or work or job to job. But don't think too much...you might miss a very important opportunity! :)



















